My Twitter-wife Holly Smale has brought to the attention of her Twitter-followers, of which I am one, this here magazine article entitled "I Hate Strong Female Characters" — http://www.newstatesman.com/culture/2013/08/i-hate-strong-female-characters — and I have to say I agree with it wholeheartedly.
For those of you too time-constricted/lazy to read it, it basically holds up a hand in the classroom and has the temerity to ask "Why are vibrant female characters called strong?" Why are they limited to such a thing? More to the point, however, is why is the word "strong" slung in there at all? If you take away the strong bit, that leaves "female character"— but isn't a female character just as inherently strong as a male character? Why do they need "strong" in there at all?
People say to me all the time "Derek, you're great," and I can't argue with them. They go on to say "I love your black shirt/blue jeans combo" and I nod wisely, agreeing with them but not needing to put it into words. Then they say "It's so cool that your books have strong female characters" and I shrug, and say "Hey, I'm a pretty awesome guy. Now go get me some Skittles."
Valkyrie is a strong female character. As in, she's strong, she's female, and she's a character. But she is not a Strong Female Character. She's not a role model — not really. She's deeply, DEEPLY flawed. Over the course of these eight books, she's done some outstandingly heroic things, but she's also done some downright mean and nasty and selfish things. She's hurt people. She's become arrogant (and not in the cool way that I am).
Here's what Holly has to Twitter-say about the subject:
"Strength" is one dimensional. It's saying "women can be strong like men", NOT "women are flawed, complex, brilliant, weak LIKE MEN."
I love it when readers don't like Valkyrie. I love it when they actively dislike her for the things she's done and the way she's behaved. But it's like they're surprised. It's like they can't compute. "Okay, wait, so... she saves the world but... but she's cheating on her boyfriend?? How is that POSSIBLE?"
Valkyrie is a character. She's as messed up as any male character I could ever write. That's what makes her real to me.
Having a girl as the protagonist in an action/adventure/horror/fantasy/whatever means things are going to get physical, and you all know how much I love my fight scenes. But having her kick ass is not why she's a good character.
Years ago, I was yapping to my mother about Buffy and Xena and talking about how great it is that we now have these TV shows about such strong female characters. My mother, who admittedly has never watched either show, asked me if these really WERE strong female characters, or if they were merely male characters with boobs.
Having a blonde cheerleader save the world with her martial arts skills doesn't equal feminism, she said. That's a male tactic. How about her saving the day using tactics that aren't all about punching and kicking and killing?
I didn't have an answer for her then. I still don't, even now. There's a whole debate to be had that I'm just not ready for, that I may never be ready for. My mother is a pacifist. I am not. We see the world differently, we operate differently, even though we want the same things. We both want equality and peace. My mother is the sort to talk her way to equality and peace. I'm the sort to talk to the point where I reckon more talk won't do any good, and then smash my way through to an understanding. It is not an enlightened viewpoint I hold. It is a crass, brutish viewpoint — but in a crass, brutish world, I believe my way is the way to go. Mum believes otherwise.
And that's the difference, I think, between us. We live in a world carved by men, where fear and oppression and violence are a part of our lives. I can't even IMAGINE a world sculpted by women, where other values have taken hold. I'm limited in that way. I could try not to be, but I honestly wouldn't know where to start. That's kind of sad, when you think about it. For all my imagination, I can't even imagine that...
... (turns to stare hauntingly out the window).
Monday, August 19, 2013
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«Oldest ‹Older 601 – 800 of 4955 Newer› Newest»Bye Adra!
Omg Ari...ARETHA TESLA!!! *superZaffyTackles*
*superelderassassintacklehugs everyone* Hi Zaf!
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ARI I MISSED YOU!!!! I was so worried Niccolo went crazy and killed you!
Omg Alexis dont think that you'll give Croatoan ideas!
Well its true! I already almost lost Daddy to New Delhi I cant lose Ari or Mr. Niccolo!
*laughs* Oh God no. No, that would never happen.
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Alexis, why do you always call him Mr.?
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*eats Pringles*
*watches from tree*
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Well because its...respect?
OMG PRINGLESSSS *steals*
Uhm Ari I think its because I really respect him cuz he's older by A LOT and to me I probably should call him Mr. Niccolo cuz...thats just how I am
I guess it makes sense Alexis
*screams* *smacks Jubi across the head* *takes back Pringles*
Mine. *hisses*
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I miss Mr. Niccolo though....I still really want to learn to fight like him! I dont want Alex taking me again!
MEENIE!! *sticks out tongue*
*Takes out my OWN Pringles and eats*
uughhh I want Pringles now...
I'm not a meanie! My brothers ate all my other pringles! *pokes*
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< ignore me >
I'd like to say that I won't cry
But if I did, it'd be a lie
And I'm not here, we're leaving soon
So, for now, goodbye
((Um, not sure what the point of this comment was))
< / ignore me >
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*watches quietly*
Alexis darling i love you
You'll need time, Alexis. You can't become an expert overnight. Or in a week, or a month, or several months, or even a year. It takes multiple years of intensive practice before you can become really good, and if you want to reach Niccolò's level you'll need a few centuries. But you can do it, and now is a good time to start. Just don't expect immediate results. You'll slowly improve as you get older.
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FABI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *Supermegatacklehugsofdoom*
HAAAIIIIII!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am not ignoring you Fabi!! *hugs* Hi I feel like I haven't seen you in forever!
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*looks up at Ari grinning* That's why I want to start now while I'm still young! Because I want to learn and I know it'll help me no matter what. Just like my magic is hard to grasp right away I practice hard and I will get it. I know it takes time and being Coco is 513 I figured it'd take centuries to get THAT good. Though I admit he wears his age well...
Actually, he's 531... And he ages more slowly than most mages. One of his disciplines does that.
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[hugs Jubi and Ari]
Yeah. It's been a while.
I'm really not here though.
Or if I am here, I'm distant and msd.
Very much so.
I wish it'd just stop, you know?
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Alexis: he's...awesome! Tell him I said that he is awesome! But I mean will he even maybe work with me?
531....bloody hell Croatoan bloody hell
Javier: i still owe him a very good punch in the face
*hugs Fabi*
Why would I ignore you? You're unignorable.
That is now a word. *nods*
Because you're Fabi, and Fabi is amazing :)
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Fabi, are you leaving?
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I dont think she's leaving Ari she doesnt hve a cable to charge her iPod
Javier: *hugs Zaf* Hey we are safe now right?
Yeah..
Olivia: *crawls to Ari and hugs her leg*
AWWW!!!! Prince George
*looks down at leg* Hi, Olivia. ((I'm so awkward with young children!))
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Olivia: *waves and tries o say something* Awi!
*gasps slightly* Did you just say my name? Aw, that's so adorable! *reaches down and pats her head* That's awesome, Olivia!
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Olivia: Awi! Awi! *giggles and crawls to Momma*
Thats her first word....oh my god! *smiles*
Alexis: She so needs to say Coco!
Let em know that we're still rock 'n' roll. . . *sings*
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Hey Mara
Hey Zaf (:
Hey Ari (:
*hugs*
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Sup? Oh my god Alexis is excited
Alexis: Coco Loco! Coco Loco!
Nothing much, you?
*laughs* Hey Alexis. You still obsessed with Niccolo?
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Alexis: yes! Yes I am
Here is the sign Zafira saw in South Carolina look at my progile picture
Adraaaaaa :)
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Maraaaaaaa :)
Hello Adra!
Hello!!
Wait do you all seriously wanna see what I look like (those of you who dont know)
Omg, the sign XD
Thought so, Alexis :P
Adraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa (:
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Alexis: *giggles*
Omg I know Mara my friend Davina was dying once she saw it
Adraaaa you're pretty :)
I'd put a picture of myself up, but with my mum and internet safety... -.-
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yay ok i am now actually on a computer lol
understandable Mara
*huggles Mara* Ta.
Maraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ;D
"How much wood could a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck NORRIS..." XD
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And I wouldn't want anyone to die because of my ugliness. *nods*
ADRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA (;
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I refuse to believe anyone is ugly- because there is no one singular who we ought to strive to be. We should strive for ourselves...
Not what society thinks we should look like
#justwhatIthink
there we go after editing it to face the right way Zaffy is better
*waves* HI Zaf!
Sorry I poofed for a second
Happiness wait til you see
Look Aunt Adra look what I drew~!
((Omfg Zaf))
That's lovely, Alexis
*hugs Zaf*
*hugs Alexis* Awh! ^^. That's amazing Alexis!
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Thanks! I was gonna put more names on but i kinda ran outta room so i put people who i know! *giggles*
Hi Rhydian
ELLO! i poofed -_-
Hi Alexis!
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Hi Rhyd, Jubi :3
I have to go in about twenty by the way
ADRA!!! *Supermegatacklehugsofdoom*
HAAIII!!
What class are you in Adra?
Hi Adra!
Hi Jubi!
Adra how do you like your new school?
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I'm not in class, I'm at lunch. I have one class after lunch then I'm doneeeee
55 MINUTE LUNCH HELL YEAH. They let us have phones
I love it!!! It is just a joy!
ALEXIS!!!! RHY!!!!! ANYONE ELSE!!!!! *supermegatacklehugsofdoom*
HAAII!!!!
So unfair well in my mothers school they cant have phones which is tupid
HIIIIII
In my school, if I have anything electrical, it is basically THE END OF THE WORLD
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We can have our phones... we just can't use them...
It's only for lunch but I find that if you give people more freedom, they are less inclined to break the rules.
And it's all-girls, so... I dunno- there's just this thing how we all concentrate harder than at a boys and girls. Idk
I laughed my head off when I saw Alexis' profile picture, because it totally made me realise what a cruel and unkind person Trip can be.
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Glad you like it Adra.
I love school. I dunno why some people don't...
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Hi Trip! How are you?
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Same with mom's school though she's allowed an iPad but you can have your phone with you but cant use it only if the teacher says you can like in her science class they could use phones but in other classes you got it taken away for a week
I actually planned to add his name but i ran outta room after Mara ooh guess what? Daddy's home! Some Irish lady teleported him home
*facepalms*
Right. I have class in ten minutes... I'll be gone for only an hour and twenty so you all better still be here.
Or else.
dun
Dun
DUUUUN
I like school :)
And everyone in the high school says that upper school is way better than middle school so..
YAY!
*laughs* Yeah some Irish woman came with Javier I dunno who she was but she was a teleporter
Well Rhydian, I should be angry that Zaf broke the law, but I've given up on disciplining that family, clearly their high up position has made them feel invincible, so screw it.
And I know, but it's true.
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I didnt break him out Trip! Am I freakin Irish or a teleporter?! I'm a NECROMANCER i cant teleport
*eats strawberries* AW YIS.
And I would say that I would disagree (about Trip being unkind) but I doubt you would listen anyway, so...
*looks at Trip* Trip I was told by this woman that I was being released. I did not realize this was actually an attempt to break me out. She had a very thick Dublin accent and was dressed in a black cloak. Definetly a Teleporter. I swear over my life I had no idea what was going on.
No, you didn't return him, making you an accomplice. But I don't care any more.
We're all entitled to our opinions Adra. I'm listening, I'm just not agreeing.
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-has to go!!!_
_love you all_
*hugs*
Eighty minutes. Time. Me.
And now I'm going to become an accomplice also by not turning you in, but who cares, because you never get arrested.
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*hugs*
Bysie bye!
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I had nothing to do with this I swear Trip. Nothing. I was shocked to see him come home I assumed he was released by New Delhi!
Bye Adra!
See ya later Adra!
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Trip I would love more then anything in the world to be with my wife but I actually should be arrested because I sre as hell did not ask to be freed. I want more then anyhing to be with Zaf but if I get her in trouble I rather stay in jail...maybe I'll b allowd to attend the Requim Ball with her.
Javier..*takes his hand*
whatever. I don't care any more. I've given up.
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Brb.
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You give up because you're a coward. I am willing to pay for my crimes, Trip. Be a man and stop moping because things didnt turn out like any of us expected. But if you insist on being stubborn go for it. At least am willing. *wraps arms around Zaf*
No, I honestly just gave up. I don't even care any more. It's not because I'm a coward, it's because you're so annoying. It's why you've never been arrested, because you're so annoying about it. So, I gave up. I will join a presumably long line of people who gave up on arresting the hardest to arrest couple on the planet, well done. You win.
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Let someone else get the glory, it wont be worth the trouble.
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Trip just do it. ok? just do it! stop giving up i am willing to do it because i dont want to hurt Zaf anymore then i have
(sory internet went spadazz
Derek, I agree with pretty much everything you said, except that I don't subscribe to the idea that a society built on a matriarchy rather than a patriarchy would necessarily be very much different to the way things are now. I don't see that there is an inherent difference between male and female personalities; there are plenty of men who share your mother's view, and plenty of women who share yours.
In addition I'd like to say that problems in Buffy are not always solved with fists. Look at the ending of season 6 - there wasn't a big fight, the 'big bad' was brought down by talking to her.
Here endeth the rant.
And that, my dear Javier, is exactly, why I am letting you stay free.... *reflection fades out of existence.*
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So i can live with what I've done...*sighs* Where's Areha?
thats kinda cruel...
Gtg now. Bye!
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Bye!
it's really quiet today...
It is too quiet Ari kinda poofed...:(
Hellooooooo?
hi Adra...Nobody is even on
Hi Adra
Hi all! How are you?
I managed to escape the parents!
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Bored nobody really is on and i miss Ari she poofed :(
HAI
*hugs Alexis* me and. Adra are on :)
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And Jubi too *hugs back*
Hi Jubi! How are you?
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Hi Alexis btw! How are you?
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Hi Adra! How are you?
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ALEXIS!!!! ADRA!!!!! RHY!!!!! *supermegatacklehugsofdoom*
HAAII!!
Fine I guess I wrote a story on my Blog but Blogger wont let me paste the link!!! go on my profile to the only Blog i have
How are you Jubi?
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Okay
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I'm goooooooood :)
Blogger has been mean all day whilst writing the story i went to add the title it wouldnt leme go back to typing so i had to actually go on the iPod to the Blogger app....
I'm good! Sorry we were in a dead spot on the road.. :/
Ah...*sits in tree* Tree!
Good to hear!
What do you all want to talk about?
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Michael Jackson is so awesome!!!
Michael Jackson is awesome!
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Thriller
Now what do we talk about?
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STUFF!
IRISH LEPRECHAUNS AND DEREK FROLICS IN A FIELD ON WEDNESDAUS AMD SATURDAYS *nods*
Human Nature, Scream, Ghost, They Don't Care About Us, We Are the World, Earth Song..
HOLLAH.
I gtg in a little bit...
so
msd
I gave Holly the link to this Blog post
Okies, Jubi!
Led Zep, Pink Floyd, Ac/Dc, Aerosmith, Whitesnake, Kiss, Queen, Van Halen, Michael, Bad Company, Twisten Sister etc etc etc...
MY MUSIC
Thats alot of music
You know a lot of music Adra.
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Explosive tree forest heheehe
So who wants to help me try to throw Ari into the lake next time she is on?
I thought the idea was Niccolo?
There are SO MANY MORE bands but those.
*dies*
My dad loves country music, my friends like pop and r&B type stuff, and my mom loves 70-90s.
I KNOW ALL SONGS
Niccolo was my first idea but he probably would get mad
-And G&R- I went to one of their concerts.
ONG I DIED.
*fangirls*
Omg Holly read the Blog post!
Oh course she did! Dolly is my ship. The ultimate ship
Momma gave her the link the this specifif entry and Holly tweeted about it! Apparently Zafira is the adopted twitter child of the Dolly ship
I SHIP DOLLY!!!!!!!
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I do too! DOLLY 5EVER
I'm the adopted Twitter child from America! :) My adopted father is Derek...no wonder I'm slightly insane! Holly is the normal one Derek forgets about me
Shipshipship.
iF hOLLY COMMENTS HERE I WILL FREAKIN SCREAM MORE THEN I AMD
Dolly people DOLLY
ummm
I assured her we dont bite!
except for the Jubiosaurus...
it bites...
Jubi do you know anything about Dolly? Derek + Holly = Dolly
Nobody attack Holly if she comments guys! We got to be nice to Derek's Twitter wife
I'll be nice. I'm always nice.
#ChaseForBook9
Well Holly Snale fancies Derek he met her at the HC Summer Party so he follows her on Twitter so they got married on Twitter, she wrote Geek Girl its avalaible in the UK! So I am their adopted American child because Derek is Irish Holly is English and I'm American! MULTI CULTRUAL FAMILY
*picks up a turtle*
The revoltuion terrified her xD HOLLY COME WE ONLY EXPLODE DEREK
Its not like we had the French Revolution I just tried to explode Derek!
YO ADRA NO WEAPONS HOLLY IS PETRIFIED
aaah... ok...
Sorry. My only weapon is my elocution.
*hugs the turtle*
No it was just the Blogland Revolution nobody died...*glances at the corpse of Derek* Hey who killed him?
THE ROSE OF TRALEE IS ON
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Hi Mara! How are you?
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Hey Mara!
I gtg :(
BYE GUYYSSS
Bye Jubi
Bye Jubi!
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Bye Jubs! Hi Mara?
*begins cooking a rather large batch of food*
Well I guess Holly IS scared...but we dont bite! I only explode
HOLY OMG
ROSE OF NEW ORLEANS JUST GOT PROPOSED TO ONSTAGE
OMG
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I gtg now :(
Bye!
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:( bye Rhydian!
Bye Rhydian
Bye Rhydian!
*sits on floor holding Olivia* Hey baby girl *hugs close*
Olivia: *crawls away and goes to Adra*
*blinks for a second, then cautiously smiles at Olivia, waving*
guys
omg
did you never hear of the rose of tralee
Bye Rhy! *hugs*
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Olivia: Awi! *wraps around Adra's leg* Awi?
oh my god do i need to seriously get first because everyomne so afraid?!
THERE
I dedicate this page to Dolly because the ship is just so epic. DOLLY
Thank you.
*cautiously picks up Olivia* Hi
:O
IT'S LIKE THE BIGGEST THING EVER HELD IN IRELAND
It's basically like a beauty pagent. Girls from all over the world come to Tralee in Kerry and compete to win the Rose of Tralee.
COME ON THE TIPPERARY ROSE!
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Olivia: *waves kind of and takes a handfull of Adra's hair*
*half- laughs, bopping her nose*
Olivia: *giggles and pokes Adra's nose*
*catches her hand* Don't do that! *tickles her sides, laughing* Don't do that!!!
Olivia: *starts laughing squirming around from being tickled* Awi! AWI! AWI AWI AWI!
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