My Twitter-wife Holly Smale has brought to the attention of her Twitter-followers, of which I am one, this here magazine article entitled "I Hate Strong Female Characters" — http://www.newstatesman.com/culture/2013/08/i-hate-strong-female-characters — and I have to say I agree with it wholeheartedly.
For those of you too time-constricted/lazy to read it, it basically holds up a hand in the classroom and has the temerity to ask "Why are vibrant female characters called strong?" Why are they limited to such a thing? More to the point, however, is why is the word "strong" slung in there at all? If you take away the strong bit, that leaves "female character"— but isn't a female character just as inherently strong as a male character? Why do they need "strong" in there at all?
People say to me all the time "Derek, you're great," and I can't argue with them. They go on to say "I love your black shirt/blue jeans combo" and I nod wisely, agreeing with them but not needing to put it into words. Then they say "It's so cool that your books have strong female characters" and I shrug, and say "Hey, I'm a pretty awesome guy. Now go get me some Skittles."
Valkyrie is a strong female character. As in, she's strong, she's female, and she's a character. But she is not a Strong Female Character. She's not a role model — not really. She's deeply, DEEPLY flawed. Over the course of these eight books, she's done some outstandingly heroic things, but she's also done some downright mean and nasty and selfish things. She's hurt people. She's become arrogant (and not in the cool way that I am).
Here's what Holly has to Twitter-say about the subject:
"Strength" is one dimensional. It's saying "women can be strong like men", NOT "women are flawed, complex, brilliant, weak LIKE MEN."
I love it when readers don't like Valkyrie. I love it when they actively dislike her for the things she's done and the way she's behaved. But it's like they're surprised. It's like they can't compute. "Okay, wait, so... she saves the world but... but she's cheating on her boyfriend?? How is that POSSIBLE?"
Valkyrie is a character. She's as messed up as any male character I could ever write. That's what makes her real to me.
Having a girl as the protagonist in an action/adventure/horror/fantasy/whatever means things are going to get physical, and you all know how much I love my fight scenes. But having her kick ass is not why she's a good character.
Years ago, I was yapping to my mother about Buffy and Xena and talking about how great it is that we now have these TV shows about such strong female characters. My mother, who admittedly has never watched either show, asked me if these really WERE strong female characters, or if they were merely male characters with boobs.
Having a blonde cheerleader save the world with her martial arts skills doesn't equal feminism, she said. That's a male tactic. How about her saving the day using tactics that aren't all about punching and kicking and killing?
I didn't have an answer for her then. I still don't, even now. There's a whole debate to be had that I'm just not ready for, that I may never be ready for. My mother is a pacifist. I am not. We see the world differently, we operate differently, even though we want the same things. We both want equality and peace. My mother is the sort to talk her way to equality and peace. I'm the sort to talk to the point where I reckon more talk won't do any good, and then smash my way through to an understanding. It is not an enlightened viewpoint I hold. It is a crass, brutish viewpoint — but in a crass, brutish world, I believe my way is the way to go. Mum believes otherwise.
And that's the difference, I think, between us. We live in a world carved by men, where fear and oppression and violence are a part of our lives. I can't even IMAGINE a world sculpted by women, where other values have taken hold. I'm limited in that way. I could try not to be, but I honestly wouldn't know where to start. That's kind of sad, when you think about it. For all my imagination, I can't even imagine that...
... (turns to stare hauntingly out the window).
Monday, August 19, 2013
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I accident sent him three miles yesterday! It. Was. Awesome. And then I started dying from a coughing fit... Of laughter...
I have returned. And thanks to star and adra for commenting on my story. I appreciate the feedback.
Adra, yes that's you! Were you pleased with how I portrayed your character? You'll be in more parts too. Promise. ^^
And Star, I'm glad you don't have to read the action scenes again to understand. ^^
*accidently
*trips, falling on the ground*
AIEEEEE
*curls into a ball* Plz dnt kyll me
Adra! No!
#ChaseForBook9
*tucks and somersaults further down a hill*
I think we all know what she wants to talk to you about Zaf. If you don't you are socially blind.
*gets up* Thank you Death, I now have proof my pendant of steel skin works, and won't have to kill the guy who sold it to me! Thanks!
#ChaseForBook9
...
I don't think they heard me.
#ChaseForBook9
Zaf you in trouble or something?
#ChaseForBook9
Well se hasnt come on yet and she said she would i mean im gonna have to go eat soon so i am not staying signed in forwver
http://item.mobileweb.ebay.co.uk/viewitem?sbk=1&nav=SEARCH&itemId=330904405563
That's an awesome poster. Would look good on my wall.
HEY! YOHOU!!!! *waving around* What is this supposed to be? I mean... is this a chat? Or what? I need information! I am SO not good at blogland! HELP! *waves again and hopes that somebody sees me*
No idea Rhy all I know is Em wants to talk to me on Skype she said she's going on and she hasnt been so I kinda am waiting but leaving soon to eat dinner so
*is not going to even START*
*slides to a stop at a cliff*
*sings* Should I stay or should I go
Hey Cat! Thus us a chat type thing
#ChaseForBook9
TheSmilingCat I guess its a chat you can be your own person we tend to roleplay as our characters from SP and chat too so yeah not helpful but I tried
@Dragona: I often do with action scenes (and descriptive scenes. I think my brain gets bored :P), sooo.
@TheSmilingCat: We all met each otehr here on this blog. :) Most of us haven't seen each other in real life, and if we HAVE seen each other in real life, it's generally because we met up at signings.
Sorry I poofed, btw.
OOH, IS IT LYRICS TIME?
I LOVE LYRICS. :)
#ChaseForBookNine
Hello SmilingCat!
Sorry I didn't acknowledge your earlier comments...
#ChaseForBook9
*Glowers at Trip and sweeps at his feet*
Msd
We are roleplaying and talking, Cat.
Zaf, it is because she is really fucking pissed off at you- as she should be. And if you were anything the friend you claim to be you sit on there and you wait.
-is so done with this-
I DO NOT HAVE ANY EMOTIONS TO GET WORKED UP OVER THIS
Gtg now. I'll try am and go on Minecraft tomorrow. Bye!
#ChaseForBook9
@TheSmilingCat: We just chat, or roleplay, or both.
We treat Derek's blog as a chat room. XD
WE'RE SPECKLE LIKE THAT.
#ChaseForBookNine
OKAY, so, you basically met here? Uhmm.... okay. Hi. That was stupid.
What kind of signings?
Oh god Rhydian.
Finish it off for me, eh? ;D
Rose i want you to listen to this song... it makes me feel good in myself.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e9SeJIgWRPk
IAM waiting but I cant sit here all day! I am eating soon!
and everyone else check it out. its a good song
Okay, I've spent hours on this game searching for somewhere to get steel, now, but I think it's beginning to dawn on me... Can you even MINE steel? o0
@TheSmilingCat: It's a place of awesome. We talk and roleplay and throw things and random/coolness. And we have cookies. *nods* :P
wbd/msd
#ChaseForBook9
WEEEEE
*cliff dives*
Shit.
My A7X playlist has dour deleted videos.
I already spent over an hour replacing another deleted video that was on the playlist . . . *glares*
WHY DOES EVERYONE DELETE THEIR VIDEOS.
#ChaseForBookNine
Yes, we did.
And Derek's book signings. None in America. :-(
Reading through past comments and writing a really log speech.
@Star That scene was very emotionally powerful... I loved/hated it.
#ChaseForBook9
Star, kk. What I'm trying to do is give a correct amount of action and other things in my mass effect story. I hope I'm doing well with that. The newest part is obviously action based but the several parts beforehand were all to do with... Thomi? ^^
Roleplay... wait, people actually do this? *looks back at earlier comments* Confusing...
The song is nice, btw
Brave, there's a new part of my mass effect story up. And your character will most likely feature in the next 2 parts.
Granted, they may be virtual cookies, but... Meh. :P ^^
*hugs Star* That sucks! D:
I hope you get some new ones in without too much trouble. ^^
wbd/msd
#ChaseForBook9
*hits the water, going under*
*pushes off the bottom, resurfacing*
I... I think he's gone now..
*breathes out*
Adrasdos, I do believe your panic is most unwarranted.
Yes, we roleplay a lot, and it is confusing, but we manage the best we can!
#ChaseForBook9
Yet.
*Is slightly dying of a coughing fit... Again...*
*Waves to Sharky and mentally curses colds*
My phone is just full of mass effect stuff. Soundboards, videos, walkthroughs, information, I even have the art of the mass effect universe book. Then some comics, the soundtracks, a mass effect game for android and pictures and wallpapers. My wallpaper atm is a planet under attack by the reapers. It's layered or something and looks cool.
Hello, Death Rose.
*kicks rocks* Oh screw this I'm signing off Skype its killing my iPod so no point anymore im leaving to eat 5-10min anyway
Reg, how are you?
Sorry I poofed, my sister came into my room and just /had/ to read me an extract from her book.
#ChaseForBook9
I feel about as well as I can be expected to feel, Dragona.
That is good. It has been a while since we've talked.
*slinks from the water, shivering*
*runs into secret caves that come up near Trip's bar*
*sneaks in, diving towards the wheelbarrow*
Indeed, Dragona.
Wait...
O.O
I don't need the steel to run the steelworks.
The steel is MADE in the steelworks.
*curls up in a corner because I spend HOURS searching xP *
*hands Death a cookie* :)
#ChaseForBook9
*steps out from the shadows right next to Adra* Want a drink Adra?
#ChaseForBook9
* spent
#ChaseForBook9
Im going to eat be bac soonish
I believe it has been maybe a year or so? It is good to see you again.
Oh yeah, how is Blogland Minecraft going anyway? I'm dying to get back on.
#ChaseForBook9
*Huddles under blanket and sneezes*
*jumps back, diving into the hole*
*hides at the bottom*
Yes indeed, it has been more than quite a while.
*is like, crying with laughs* minecraft's GRAND
*follows Adra into the hole* Adra? Why are you so scared?
#ChaseForBook9
A very long while. A whole annum.
Anything new?
#ChaseForBook9
@TheSmilingCat: Book signings that Derek does. :)
@Nobody in particular: Actually, wait, I don't think they HAVE deleted. I think it's just YouTube fucking with me.
What the hell.
*frowns*
#ChaseForBookNine
*just continues laughing*
Oh.
My god.
I think I'm gone now, sorry.
Maybe I'll be back in a while with a speechy-thing.
#ChaseForBook9
*Picks up blanket and stalks towards Adra and Trip* *Mutters something about stupid people*
*hugs Star* It is okay. Youtube's a fucker.
*throws cheese at everyone*
Bye Fabi!
What did you do to my bar?
#ChaseForBook9
What? ._.
The military just raided my village.
My TINY, INNOCENT village.
They killed a fifth of my population.
*mutters*
(This is kind of why I don't often let myself play games anymore, btw. I will not stop until I am finished. Completely.
I usually get to a point where I realise if I don't stop there, I never will, and quit before I can go on. But I think I passed that a while ago, now. :P )
#ChaseForBook9
*hugs Fabilous* okay.
*shivers again, reaching for her backpack*
*does a circle*
*curses under her breath*
*slowly walks forward inch by inch to get around Trip*
Did you burn it down? Or fill it with chickens? Or trap it?
#ChaseForBook9
No! I did nothing! Everything is in grand condition!
*dashes past, running up the gap*
*Hugs Fabi*
Taia, mhm. That's like me and mass effect. If I could I'd play it all day until I was finished. One mission melts into the other and the next thing I know, 6 hours has passed.
Adra, I can see your soul. I know you're trying to flank me, why? What's going on?
#ChaseForBook9
*Throws blanket at Trip and walks away*
Hey, everyoneeee~
So, basically, I start secondary tomorrow. Primary to secondary is one of the hardest changes ever in Ireland, simply because if you don't study, you will fail your Junior Cert. Fail your Junior Cert, fail your Leaving Cert. Fail your Leaving Cert, and you will not get a job and quite possibly be homeless... -.-
So the pressure is on for me to ace my Junior Cert, which is in 3rd year. Three years from now.
So my mum is banning me from the internet.
It won't be easy, but I will try my hardest to get on here. I can't in school, because if I'm caught, I'm given four demerits. Get five demerits and you have detention. Get detention and you miss study. Miss study, fail your Leaving Cert. And so on.
But I'll try. I'll come here at the weekends. Maybe at night on weekdays, if my mum doesn't take my iPad away/turn off the wifi.
If I don't come back until, like, Christmas... Which is very likely... I'd like to say thank you. Thank you so much to every single one of you.
And I really should be sleeping now because tomorrow is hectic and with my birthday on Monday and LSODM and TIU and Liam's birthday on Thursday/Friday and my possible sleepover... Yeah.
*hugs everyone*
I'm going to quote Leeroy and say,
"Stay where you are, because you are per-fect!"
#ChaseForBook9
*flies after Adra, matching her speed, flying beside her*
So why are you running? Why are you scared?
#ChaseForBook9
Trip, do you require help in defending your bar?
*Hugs Mara tightly* I love you. Make sure you don't leave me, little sister. *Hugs tighter and is totally not crying*
*hugs Mara* Hi!
Nope! No telling- you'll have to wait and see.
And then you'll murder Rhydian and me.
*climbs up, immediately going to her bag and grabbing a blanket*
Maralie, good luck and I hope you'll be able to come on.
Wait.
Mars.
*tacklehugs* I love you so much you are like my little blog sister you don't understand- you have made my summer. *hugs tighter*
@Mara: Oh no! :'(
We'll miss you!!!
And, that's like England with GCSEs . . . BUT WHY IS INTERNET BANNED WHEN YOU'RE NOT DOING YOUR JUNIOR CERT FOR TWO YEARS????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
:(
#ChaseForBookNine
What? Banning you from the internet for three years?
Also, I have big things coming up in a few years too, but you can't let your life revolve around them, no matter how much is at stake. We love you Mara, and thanks for broadening my horizons.
But heed my warning. Do not let it control your life.
#ChaseForBook9
Alright, Fabi. *hands her a cookie*
@Dragona: *nods* I do the same. What's worse is that I have some kind of compulsive need to collect every single thing there is to collect. All the tiny little tasks and flags and whatnot. It's so frustrating. :P
This isn't a complex game, though. At all. It's all just black and white text. That's it. But I need to finish it, now... :P
#ChaseForBook9
Star, did you read what I said up there about the balance between action and stuff?
Aw i really hope i see you before CHRISTMAS mara. enjoy your possible sleepover. I gtg. byye
Bye Brave! *waves*
Wait. You're running from me because you did something to my minecraft bar?
Adra. Please, I need to know.
That bar is the best thing I ever made, well not really, but my favourite thing I've ever made. What did you do?
#ChaseForBook9
@Dragona: Yes, but I'm so distant and YouTube was filling my mind so I forgot about it. *facepalm*
I think you have a good balance, so far. *nods*
I LOVE AVENGED SEVENFOLD.
#ChaseForBookNine
Bye Brave!
#ChaseForBook9
EVEN I'M LAUGHING NOW, AND I DON'T EVEN HAVE MINECRAFT. XD
#ChaseForBookNine
Taia, same! You wouldn't believe the amount of time I spend during a mission just exploring and going around in circles to find every stash of credits, every weapon, every armour piece, every medical station.
And today that paid off. I found my favourite rifle after I stole it from Cerberus hehe. Its called the mattock and is semi-automatic but is extremely powerful and can be fired quickly. It's heavy but its good and it makes an awesome sound.
*huggles Mara* Best of luck to you, then. I hope you can get on without it causing you trouble.
I'll look forward to seeing you, whenever it might be.
*hands her a cookie* Try not to forget how awesome you are between now and then, too, okay? :)
#ChaseForBook9
My mum said, for now, I am officially banned. I have no clue when I am officially /not/ banned, nor do I know why I /am/ banned in the first place.
I will hopefully still be reachable by email (maralielilycharm@gmail.com) and I must go now bye.
#ChaseForBook9
How the hell am I supposed to say no to that?
Though, I suppose, that is the point.
No. I didn't do anything.
Everything is intact- I would NEVER burn it down or anything.
Ahem.
But we may have raided the stock.
Again- it is somewhere safe. Just not in the bar ;D
*runs up into her nook, hiding in the pile of blankets*
MARA YOU'RE AMAZAYN AND PERRIEFECT AND ZERRIEFIC AND SEE YOU SOON I HOPE [hugs tightly]
#ChaseForBook9
*hugs Mara* ily bbz
Thanks, Star. The next one will be slight action but more story. Maybe 50-50 between the two. But the action contributes to the story anyway.
Oh. And we'll put them back
One more question, are we still in creative?
#ChaseForBook9
@Dragona: Yes! Awesome! Good find, by the sounds of it. :)
Y'know some games where you'll be given a rating for your level/task/mission/performance/whatever? I tend to have to complete each one to the best possible rating before I move onto the next one.
On some games, I don't follow that, but, like, puzzle-based games especially. I have things on my iPod that I'd been on the very same puzzle/level for weeks because I can't pick up an extra 1,000 points anywhere. xP
#ChaseForBook9
Thanks.
I TOLD you you'd want to kill us.
We still are. *giggles*
Oh, well then I have no problems.
Also, I may have been guilty of a little manipulation there. Sorry for all that, you now, using your good nature to obtain the I formation I needed.
But what I said /was/ true. It is my favourite.
#ChaseForBook9
Why is it quiet.
I don't like this
*growls from under the blankets* I'm not that mean.
Well.
Not to you.
Poor Mara...*sighs* thats stupid banning because you're having your Junior Cert in 2yrs...
Though, when you do get on, I have to show you the lab!!
SIX MORE DAYS UNTIL LAST STAND OF DEAD MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#YOLO
#ChaseForBook9
Mass effect isn't like that. Some missions can be failed and you can still continue the game regardless, admittedly with consequences. Mostly it relies on decisions, though. You can practically choose the outcome of every mission and everything you do can have a positive or negative effect on the story.
But the closest thing I can relate to with mass effect is probably the suicide mission on me2. If you didn't give the right person the right job then your team started dying. Same if they weren't loyal. My first play through had one of my favourite characters (and who I accidentally started a relationship with) being shot in the head. So I restarted, trying to get a perfect ending. And then no one died but a bitchy woman so I was fine with that. :)
I'm gonna go.
*offers everybody both hugs and cookies*
Bye!
*wanders away singing TFL's When You Smile C:*
#ChaseForBook9
Lucky to see it all of you :/ it hurts sitting here never able to because i cant go get the game because stuff and it sucks like hell wishing i could even go on but i cant and never will be able to so
I've seen it. Unless you've changed it since a week and a half ago.
#ChaseForBook9
Bye Taia!
I should go now too. I have a book to read. Bye!
http://masseffectfanfiction.blogspot.com
Hi Duck! Bye Taia!
And yeah... I did, actually.
*nods* It's awesomely awesome.
And it is the place to be.
Ultimate hangout ftw
*Starts shivering* Stupid Aussie weather...
Bye Dragona
What's the Minecraft world called??
I wanna join!!
Bye Dragona...
Guess have fun on Minecraft i shall never see it so
I'm gonna go. I need some sleep. See you all soon, bye!
#ChaseForBook9
*jumps down, hugging him and then kissing his cheek*
Good to know I'm not dying!
*runs back up to her nook*
Hello...
Still writing a speech. Actually, it's turning into a video ded without the ded part. So, a video. Yeah.
Distantly here...
#ChaseForBook9
*sits waiting* Maybe Ari will come on
*grins, pulling herself into a giggling cocoon* Rude...
*shrugs*
not rude just crazy
Not you, just Trip. *nods*
*giggles again*
We can have this out on the blog Zaf or we can do it privately.
But giving the circumstances with everything that has happened with me and Death and the fact that everyone is feeling a bit fragile right now, I suggest that we do it privately.
Do you agree??
yes and i am replying as Alexis as my iPOod is having fun with going on Skype
And this is where I leave... Sorry Em...
Not really Trip- I'm joking. He's adorable.
*nods enthusiastically*
Not that I think he liked being called that
[hugs Em]
I'm glad you're alive.
#ChaseForBook9
Trip is adorable I guess...
I wish I could say the same Fabi...
He is, though! Completely, surprisingly clueless sometimes... *grins* But that's okay
Most guys are clueless like Daddy when Mommy hints she wants something he just looks all confused for an hour
Em... I really shouldn't have said that... I was just pissed... And there was this idiot who pulled a gun to my head... I was... Chaotic... I couldn't think straight... I'm really, truly sorry...
I'm a bitch. I'm fucked up.
I'm sorry.
Stop apologising Death.
You have not fucked up or done anything wrong.
Stop. Saying. Sorry.
I did do something wrong...
[hugs]
#ChaseForBook9
*shrugs* It is true, Alexis.
But it isn't their fault.
I think we are too complicated..
What did you do wrong?
Cause from where I've been watching from, you've done nothing wrong at all.
hi all!!
only here for a bit
msd
Don't tell me you forgot that comment already..?
Yeah we soooo are
um... whats going on??
*is puzzled*
Death, come onto gmail and we'll talk on there.
And I'm sorry to say that yes I've forgotten, I've had a rough couple of days.
Kay... But I'm likely to disappear in a few minutes...
*is completely confuzzled*
huh??
Hi Snow
Yeah...
Hi Snow [hugs]
#ChaseForBook9
explosions ugh the dynamite forest is ripe
no one is doing anything to cease my un-easy.
i have cookies if you want Snow
okay... *takes a cookie*
*is still unsure of what is going on*
g2g, byee!!
*huggles all*
oh, for....
will ded later, byee
I don't know how to help...sorry...
[hugs everyone]
I think I'm going to go. See you.
#ChaseForBook9
Bye Fabi, Snow. *nods*
Bye Fabi
*salsas from the nook*
Adra where are you?
In a nook
Oh...can I come?
Nope!
Awww
Sorry!
Iskips around the lake* laalalaalalalala! *is grinning with Coco bear in hand*
My friend who is a jumior wants to carpool on thursdays to school, fuck no. She hasnt got a permit yet ill pass as i rather live to see tomorrow
My brothers just got their licenses. It isn't too shoddy
She just is getting her permit...yeah no i'd rather wait until she drove a little more...i do value my life a lot
Sometimes you just gotta trust people
Not her...she would get us killed i told her in the spring ill do it but not winter no way with icy roads ect i rather trust my mother to drive me in as she has had experience with icy roads and stuff like that
Ah
So Adra can i try Tumblesoz?
Can I try anything? Please?
No, Alexis.
*sighs* I want to train...anything *sits by lake*
HELLOOOO
Hi Jubi!
Hi jubi
ADRA!!!! ALEXIS!!!! *supermegatacklehugsofdoom*
HAAII!!!
msd
KK!
I like to wander the lake...*grins* reminds me of the days Daddy spent with me
Wow- ME TOO!!
Really Adra?
... No. That... That was a dark joke. Nevermind.
Okay! You wanna make s'mores?
Not particularly. But don't let my not participating stop you
Oh okay *goes and finds firewood and makes it into a fire pit and then clicks fingers setting wood on fire* I need. A stick. *goes and finds stick and cooks marshmellows
*Sings* Shatter every window until it's all blown away...
you ok?
I'm fine
you sure?
Positively.
ok i hope you are fine
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