My Twitter-wife Holly Smale has brought to the attention of her Twitter-followers, of which I am one, this here magazine article entitled "I Hate Strong Female Characters" — http://www.newstatesman.com/culture/2013/08/i-hate-strong-female-characters — and I have to say I agree with it wholeheartedly.
For those of you too time-constricted/lazy to read it, it basically holds up a hand in the classroom and has the temerity to ask "Why are vibrant female characters called strong?" Why are they limited to such a thing? More to the point, however, is why is the word "strong" slung in there at all? If you take away the strong bit, that leaves "female character"— but isn't a female character just as inherently strong as a male character? Why do they need "strong" in there at all?
People say to me all the time "Derek, you're great," and I can't argue with them. They go on to say "I love your black shirt/blue jeans combo" and I nod wisely, agreeing with them but not needing to put it into words. Then they say "It's so cool that your books have strong female characters" and I shrug, and say "Hey, I'm a pretty awesome guy. Now go get me some Skittles."
Valkyrie is a strong female character. As in, she's strong, she's female, and she's a character. But she is not a Strong Female Character. She's not a role model — not really. She's deeply, DEEPLY flawed. Over the course of these eight books, she's done some outstandingly heroic things, but she's also done some downright mean and nasty and selfish things. She's hurt people. She's become arrogant (and not in the cool way that I am).
Here's what Holly has to Twitter-say about the subject:
"Strength" is one dimensional. It's saying "women can be strong like men", NOT "women are flawed, complex, brilliant, weak LIKE MEN."
I love it when readers don't like Valkyrie. I love it when they actively dislike her for the things she's done and the way she's behaved. But it's like they're surprised. It's like they can't compute. "Okay, wait, so... she saves the world but... but she's cheating on her boyfriend?? How is that POSSIBLE?"
Valkyrie is a character. She's as messed up as any male character I could ever write. That's what makes her real to me.
Having a girl as the protagonist in an action/adventure/horror/fantasy/whatever means things are going to get physical, and you all know how much I love my fight scenes. But having her kick ass is not why she's a good character.
Years ago, I was yapping to my mother about Buffy and Xena and talking about how great it is that we now have these TV shows about such strong female characters. My mother, who admittedly has never watched either show, asked me if these really WERE strong female characters, or if they were merely male characters with boobs.
Having a blonde cheerleader save the world with her martial arts skills doesn't equal feminism, she said. That's a male tactic. How about her saving the day using tactics that aren't all about punching and kicking and killing?
I didn't have an answer for her then. I still don't, even now. There's a whole debate to be had that I'm just not ready for, that I may never be ready for. My mother is a pacifist. I am not. We see the world differently, we operate differently, even though we want the same things. We both want equality and peace. My mother is the sort to talk her way to equality and peace. I'm the sort to talk to the point where I reckon more talk won't do any good, and then smash my way through to an understanding. It is not an enlightened viewpoint I hold. It is a crass, brutish viewpoint — but in a crass, brutish world, I believe my way is the way to go. Mum believes otherwise.
And that's the difference, I think, between us. We live in a world carved by men, where fear and oppression and violence are a part of our lives. I can't even IMAGINE a world sculpted by women, where other values have taken hold. I'm limited in that way. I could try not to be, but I honestly wouldn't know where to start. That's kind of sad, when you think about it. For all my imagination, I can't even imagine that...
... (turns to stare hauntingly out the window).
Monday, August 19, 2013
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Yay DNA is on :))))
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Didnt they buy the rights to that song? Or something?
Mmmmm.... Chocolate..... Need chocolate.......
Not sure if she >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Should be my Ponysona..... Her name is Cynthia! <3
No. Ed Sheeran wrote it for them.
Ed<3
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MARAAAAAAAAAA
NEXT TIME I'M TRYING TO POINT OUT YOU'RE AWESOME
I WILL SAY THAT IT'S IN YOUR DNA
D-D-D-DNA
IT'S IN YOUR DNA
AND YOU JUST TAKE OUR BREATH AWAY
BRE-BRE-BRE-BREATH AWAY
WE FEEL IT EVERY DAY
IT'S JUST THE WAY YOU ARE
YOU ARE A SHINING STA-A-A-AR
PERFECT IN EVERY WAY
DON'T ARGUE THIS AWAY
WHATEVER YOU MIGHT SAY
IT'S IN YOUR D-D-D-DNA!
. . . I thought of it whilst I was out today . . . :P
Maybe I should parody the whole song. O_O
Hmm.
#ChaseForBookNine
Love Ed!
Hmmmm..... Need Ponysona..... And Tempo needs a borfriend! Tempo is my Main Fursona. I have 13 Fursonas 2 Scalesonas, 0 Ponysonas.
Bluebell- Pig- has a boyfriend
Aurora- cat- has her reflection
Galactica- Lion- Has her hands full with Griffon.
Cant be stuffed to read out the rest.
Tempo- 3 tailed wolf- Has no one :(
*sees Mara saying DNA was on* Oh my gosh, did that post whilst you were listening to DNA? O_O
FREAKINESS.
#ChaseForBookNine
Love that song <3
*hums*
Anyone wanna help me? This hurts..
Hiya!
What does?
What does?
Moving i got my arm broken and uh i am bleeding from my stomach
... Star O.O
THAT'S JUST FREAKY
and nope
that is a song of lies *pokes*
Sing it to someone else, not me (:
#ChaseForBook9
Ouchie!
@Mara: But I adjusted it with you in mind . . . :P
I was going to make it "Mara" instead of "star," but "star" went better, so it ALMOST had your name in it . . . :)
IT'S JUST SUCH A GOOD ARGUMENT, THOUGH.
BEACUSE IT'S HARD TO EXPLAIN HOW AWESOME PEOPLE ARE.
AND IF I CAN JUST SAY IT'S IN YOUR DNA, THEN YOU HAVE TO GET ME BECAUSE LITTLE MIX MADE THAT ARGUMENT IN THEIR SONG AND LITTLE MIX ARE AWESOME AND STUFFS. AND AS A MIXER YOU PROBABLY UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY MEAN, SO YOU'LL UNDERSTAND WHAT I MEAN.
*nods*
But it doesn't really work against non-Mixer people, sooo.
#ChaseForBookNine
I mean, a whole different line, but it's the "Mara" and the "star" that have to at least sort of rhyme with "are", which is why I mentioned them. :)
#ChaseForBookNine
I understand perfectly <3
I'm a Mixer. But if you were talking about 1D or football i would turn onto sleep mode and not compute at all.
@Lunaria: *HUGS* YAY FOR MIXERS!!!!!!!! :)
Little Mix are amazing. *nods*
#ChaseForBookNine
LM is the only Band i have EVER liked all the songs for. If i buy a CD i usually only listen to about 2 songs and hate the rest, but with LM i like them all! *hugs*
Going to bed now night! <333333 *hugs everyone*
Bye, Lunaria!:( *hugs*
Bonjour!:)
#ChaseForBook9
Night!
My class is over in about twenty minutes...
then one more 80 before lunch
I'M A MIXER, TRUE AND PROUD
LET ME HEAR YOU, SAY IT LOUD
JESY, PERFECTION TO A T
SHE IS JUST LIKE YOU AND ME
JADE, SHE LIVES HER BOWS
SHE SELLS OUT CONCERTS, LOADS AND LOADS
LEIGH-ANNE IS THE ONE WHO LOVES SNAPBACKS
SHE IS AMAZING AT DOING RAPS
FINALLY, PERRIE, BEAUTIFUL AND A DOTE
IMPRESSES MIXERS WITH HER IMPRESSION OF A GOAT
I'M A MIXER, PROUD AND TRUE
I AM A MIXER, AND I HOPE YOU ARE TOO!~
That was fun to write XD
#ChaseForBook9
*LOVES
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Night
Grrr no way in HELL am I ever going on any bloody field trips with any kids in my grade level in my church no fucking way I am not being bored to death at stupid fucking things that do religion i have better things to do with my life then be bored with kids i absolutly HATE so no just no and then my moher thinks i actually want to be a reader? No. I said no multiple times i dont want to make a fool of myself in front of people because i can't pronounce all the words in the Bible i altar serve and sing in the choir i do NOT read no i hate reading religous stuff as it is and to read it out loud is just plain no
:( FOURS LUNARIA!
Well, I guess that's quite an achievement then. But Little Mix do have a lot of awesome songs. :)
There's a few I don't like as much, though, personally . . . But different people like different things from music. *shrugs*
HEY IENI! :)
@Adra: Poor you, at school. :(
#ChaseForBookNine
@Zaf: About making a fool in front of people: Those who mind, don't matter, and those who matter, don't mind. If people laugh at you, then they're not worth bothering with.
I really hate making a fool of myself in front of other people too, so I should probably follow my own advice . . . :P
#ChaseForBookNine
The Scream and Shout Les Mis version is the best video on the internet. Everyone else can go home
Lol I just seriously rather not be involved anymore because then reading takes me away from being in choir which i love to do more so i see no reason to read if it interipts what i do like
That sounds...very crap, Zaf.
I make a fool of myself all the time, but if I'm with my friends, it's okay:)
#ChaseForBook9
*begins to scream inside*
I have English next.
GUYS
HELP
MY ENGLISH TEACHER IS SO AWESOMELY SCARY HELP ME
Hahah I had an awesome English teacher! Now I think i have rhe scary Honors teacher, me no like her
I have the scary honors Teacher... *hides under a rock* I'm terrified. I mean, he is a wonderful teacher and he is certainly at the college level.. But it's just new. Compared to last year, that is.
Ah well isnt English half the year i seem to think yiu have block scheduling
I'm sure it won't be that bad, Adra . . . At least he's not gong to try and kill you. I think. :)
#ChaseForBookNine
...
I just want an A
I NEED MY NAME PUT INTO THE HUNGER GAMES *sobs*
40, 19, 41, 40, 57, 39, 79, 6. *basks in the sense of satisfaction*
#ChaseForBookNine
Zerrie *squeals*
18/8/13 *hops up and down*
I can't believe my babies are growing up... I don't know whether to cry or scream with excitement.
:(:
:):
My feelings exactly.
#ChaseForBook9
Mara happy *nods*
Adra you will survive
@Mara: Oh my gosh, you have eight eyes? O_O
*backs away slowly*
#ChaseForBookNine
CHANGE
CHANGE YOUR LIFE
TAKE IT ALLLLLLLLLLL
ZERRIEZERRIEZERRIEZERRIE<3
*stares at Star*
Oooohhhhh eight eyes. Be afraid. :P
#ChaseForBook9
@Mara: *screams* FORGET YOUR LIFE, CHANGE YOUR FACE!!! SPECIFICALLY THE EYESSSSSSS! :P
#ChaseForBookNine
Alexis is really loud in my head....I let her become her own personality and geez she is like 11....and Javier too though he's the silent one IS THIS WHAT ITS LIKE IN NICCOLO'S HEAD?! *curls up in ball* ooh *screams from broken arm*
HOLD ON JUST GOT AN EMAIL FROM SKULDUGGERY PLEASANT LOL
#ChaseForBook9
No...
If you get over a 96 of a perfect score your name goes into a basket. At the end of the term there is a HUGE test and if your name is drawn you have to bring in snacks, but you are exempt from the exam.
*dies*
I NEED THIS
CHANGE
CHANGE YOUR EYES
RIP THEM OUT
#ChaseForBookNine
*glares at Star*
I'M ON THE RIGHT TRACK BABY I WAS BORN THIS WAY *dances*
#ChaseForBook9
@Adra: OH MY GOSH.
AWESOMENESS. O_O
@Zaf: Fictional charcaters are evil. :P
#CHaseForBOokNine
I NEED THIS EXEMPTNESS
I also should go...
I'll be out at about 12:45, apply that to your own times as you wish.
*salutes*
AHAHA
Gemma Styles: "@qikipedia: On average, older siblings have higher IQs." What uuuuup.
Harry Styles: @GemmaAnneStyles gaaaaaah
Gemma Styles: @Harry_Styles Truth hurts sucker
Harry Styles: @GemmaAnneStyles so does a poke in the eye.
#ChaseForBook9
@Mara: *laughs* C:
If you say so. WHO THE FUCK AM I TO CRITISE YOUR TWISTED STATE OF MIND?
(Uh, that is a song. Just saying, in case you thought I was randomly insulting you. D:)
#ChaseForBookNine
@Mara: *laughs*
@Adra: SEE YOU SOON! . . . I never know whether to put a :(, like OH NO YOU'RE GOING, or a :), like YAY I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN SOON, so, um, :) :(? D:
*Not the 'If you say so' though. THat was just me smoothing it out.
#ChaseForBookNine
*facepalms* Star...
And Actually,
1st Child- takes after the father usually
2nd child- the more creative one who wanders?
3rd Child (like me) The one with the most common sense because they learn from their siblings' mistakes and is just SO FREAKING AWESOME AAAAWWWW YYYYYEEEAAAAAAAAHHHHH
Totes Adra totes!
HAAIIII
. . . Are you saying I take after my father?
Because I take after my mum more.
#ChaseForBookNine
Hai Jubi!
I don't take after my father. :P
#ChaseForBook9
ZAF!!!!! STAR!!!!! ADRA!!!!! ANYONE ELSE!!!! *Supermegatacklehugsofdoom*
HAII!!
*MARA!!!!!!
xP
*smirks* Alexis wishes to say hi to all of you! And Jubi HELP ME I CANT MOVE THE BONE STICKING OUTTA MY ARM! Can you raid the bar for me?
Adra - I actually find that kinda true... Because I DO take over my dad...
because my dad's like... REALLY crazy..
in the good way, I mean xD
And my sister is kinda a mixture of the second and third because SHE NEVER GETS IN TROUBLE BECAUSE SHE LEARNS FROM THE MISTAKES I MAKE AND IT DRIVES ME INSANNEEEEEEEEE
yeah.. xP
O.O
You STILL didn't get that fixed!!??
and I would LOVE to raid the bar >:D
And, I'm more creative than my sister!
You know, me and my borther are pretty similar people. We both ponder the world and take interest in things like how the world is brighter when you look through your circled hands and how if you look at something through a circle made with your hand with both eyes open, then when you close your right eye, the object will be in the circle (if you're right handed), and wth your left eye closed it will be behind your hand (if you're right handed), and if you're left handed it'll be the other way around. And my sister just moans that she doens't get it, it gives her a headache and if we don't stop talking about nonsense she's going to stomp off in a huff.
OH MY GOSH, IT'S SO INTERESTING, THOUGH.
Seriously. Make a circle with your hand and look through it at something, then close one eye and then the other!
And, if you look through your hands, the world IS brighter! IT'S SO COOL!!!
#ChaseForBookNine
Yay! Go find me a different loopy wine that isnt Tumblesoz cuz it'll kill me if i have another! And hehehe its cool isnt it? *pokesmy bone*
OKAY!!! :D
*runs into the bar through the broken window that still hasn't gotten fixed*
hmmmm *Looks at all the wine and picks a random one in the loopy wine section*
HERE!
HI JUBI! HI FABI! :)
#ChaseForBookNine
FABI!!!!!!!! *Supermegatacklehugsofdoom*
HAAII!!
YAY!!! *takes swig of loopy wine*
I think I aced it
wbd
Ok I just realized that I said I take OVER my dad last time..
well I meant AFTER my dad...
so yeah..
xP
[Waves to Adra]
Mind control, eh Jubi?
#ChaseForBook9
mmmmm TOTALY
xD
wow... I use xD and xP WAY too much...
and now I wanna use xP again...
so I'll just do this
:P
*is distant*
Ooh, are you going to take over the word, Jubiness?
#ChaseForBookNine
YEESS!!! Mwahahahahahahahaaaaaaa
YOU WILL ALL BOW DOWN TO JUBILANCE!! YOUR SUPREME RULER!!!
*world
But you could take over the word too, if you wanted. XD
#ChaseForBookNine
@Jubi: Bubbles can't really bow.
When we try to, we just sort of roll over.
#ChaseForBookNine
ohh
well it depends on what word...
[hugs for no particular reason]
I, um, maybe, um, should go now?
...
Yeah...
#ChaseForBook9
ahh..
well...
DO THE BEST YOU CAN TO BOW DOWN TO JUBILANCE
AW :(
BAI FABIIIIII!!!!! *SUPERMEGAGOODBYETACKLEHUGSOFDOOMTHAT'SINALLCAPSBECAUSEIFORGOTTOTURNITOFFANDITTAKESTOOMUCHEFFORTTORETYPEEVERYTHING*
:( Fours, Fabi . . .
@Jubi: But what if I don't want to bow down to you?
#ChaseForBookNine
MSD and i have no idea when i will return probably like uhm 4-6ish
THEN YOU WILL BE EXECUTED!!!!!!! >:D
@Jubi: THEN I WILL RUN AWAY FROM THE EXECUTION!!! XD
#ChaseForookNine
((NOT HERE! IGNORE MY PRESENCE!))
Can bubbles run?
#ChaseForBook9
...
THEN I WILL GET MY MINIONS TO HUNT YOU DOWN AND POP YOU!!!!!
Sorry I went distant for a sec :P
@Fabi: No . . . Good point! :)
SO I WILL FLOAT AWAY.
AND I WILL FLOAT ABOVE THE REACH OF YOUR MINIONS, JUBI, SO THEY WILL NOT CACTH ME! XD
#ChaseForBookNine
WELL MY MINIONS WILL HAVE BOWS AND ARROWS SO THEY WILL BE ABLE TO POP YOU IN THE AIR!!
WELL I WILL FLOAT UP ABOVE THE REACH OF THEIR ARROWS!!!
#ChaseForBookNine
THEN YOU WOULD DIE FROM THE LOW AIR PRESSURE AND POP ANYWAYS!
20m
Zaffy gtg be back 4-6pmish my time...hopefully earlier
Change, change your life, take it all... :)
ZAYN AND PERRIE ARE CHANGING THEIR LIVES
THEY ARE GETTING MARRIED
HUSBAND AND WIFE
HUSBAND AND WIFE
COINCIDENCE I THINK NOT
#ChaseForBook9
BAI BAI ZAFFY!!!!! *Supermegagodbyetacklehugsofdoom*
. . . AIR PRESSURE DOES NOT POP ME, BECAUSE WE HAVE AN AGREEMENT. I GO VISIT IT EVERY NOW AND THEN, AND IT DOESN'T POP ME.
AIR PRESSURE GETS VERY LONLEY, YOU KNOW. ANYOPNE WHO COMES NEAR IT DIES, SO IT NEVER GETS TO SPEAK TO NAYONE . . . :(
HI ADRA! :)
#ChaseForBookNine
@Mara: *screams* OH MY GOSH THAT'S SO COOL! :)
#ChaseForBookNine
um..
THEN MY MINIONS WILL GET IN THEIR WAR PLANES AND SHOOT YOU! >:D
YOU CANNOT ESCAPE YOUR SUPREME RULER!
DRAGONA!!! *Supermegatacklehugsofdoom*
HAAII!!!
STAR IKR
I'M SO EXCITED
AHHHHH
ZERRIE
ZERRIE
ZERRIEEEEEEEEEEEE❤
OH LAWD
ONE DIRECTION AS GROOMSMEN
LITTLE MIX AS BRIDESMAIDS
HOLY CRAP CAN I BE INVITED TO THIS WEDDING PLS
#ChaseForBook9
@Dragona: HELLO! :)
Well, I'll just wear a bulletproof . . . *pauses* I don't think bubbles can wear vests.
A BULLETPROOF BUBBLE SUIT!!! *ndos*
#ChaseForBOokNine
I learned how I did in my GCSE's today. I got mostly A's, a few B's and a 'Distinction' in ICT. So I'm rather happy.
AND I also went on Mass Effect and I was having trouble with these giant armoured bird things called Harvesters that I had to kill because I had a bad rifle and then I found a Reaper Blackstar and I was like "HELL YEAH".
So in the middle of a battle with Husks and other assorted Reaper ground forces I ran, took quick aim with the Blackstar and charged it and then fired.
The Harvester was completely BOOMED. And so were ALL of the Husks and everything. Black holes are pretty damn awesome.
There was a giant purple flash and a giant orange flash and then the Harvester went KABOOM and I was like "YEAH :D".
THEN THEY'LL SEND OUT A MAGICALLY ENCHANTED NET THAT NEVER MISSES AND CAPTURE YOU AND IF THE NET DOESN'T POP YOU, THEN THEY WILL!!
THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS OF YOU DON'T BOW DOWN TO ME!
@Mara: IT'LL BE AMAZERRIEFCT! :)
#ChaseFOrBookNine
*rolls around* I'm so hungryyyyy
@JUBI: ON SECOND THOUGHTS
I CAN'T POP
BECAUSE I'MMM IN-DES-TRUCT-IB-LE!
(LOL, it's my best argument to fall back on when people talk about popping me. :P)
#ChaseForBookNine
IT'S OK ADRA!!! IT'S ALMOST LUNCH TIME
I assume..
since it's almost 1... xP
well..
THEN MY MINIONS WILL DISCOVER A WAY TO KILL YOU.
BECAUSE NO ONE'S INVINCIBLE!
SO..
BOW DOWN TO ME!!
The Reaper Blackstar - it can solve any problems. Especially Reaper and other assorted enemy... issues.
IT IS. LUNCH STARTS...
RIGHT NOW.
WOO
*Runs from English class*
YAAAY!!!!!
WELL . . .
UM . . .
*is invincible, just INDESTRUCTIBLE*
UMMMM . . .
Well, I'll push your minions out of the sky, because I AM THE PUSH THAT MAKES YOU MOVE.
(Sorry. Can't seem to stop quoting. D:)
@Dragona: Sounds cool! :)
#ChaseForBookNine
@ADra: YAAAAAAAAAAAAAY! :)
#ChaseForBookNine
THEN CLEMY WILL COME AFTER YOU AND BURN YOU!
BECAUSE SHE CAN BURN ANYTHING!!! EVEN BUBBLES!!! BECAUSE SHE'S CLEMYYYY!!!
MWAHAHAHAHAHAHAAA!!!!
AND EVEN IF THAT DOESN'T DESTROY YOU, IT WILL SLOW YOU DOWN ENOUGH FOR US TO CAPTURE YOU AND BRING YOU BACK TO MY PALACE OF DOOM AND THEN I WILL FIND A WAY TO DESTROY YOU!!
Instead of my anti-material rifle my weapon of choice will now be the Reaper Blackstar since it's very problem solving.
. . . I'm RUNNING OUT OF WAYS TO RUN, here! :P
OKAY
YOU'LL CATCH ME
AND KILL ME
BUT THAT'S OKAY
BECAUSE I WOULD RATHER DIE THAN BOW TO YOU!!!
And I still won't have bowed to you after you kill me, so you won't e bowed to by me, so YOU WILL NOT WIN. :)
#ChaseForBOokNine
#ChaseForBookNine
YES I WILL!!! BECAUSE I KILL WHOEVER DOESN'T BOW DOWN TO ME AND IF YOU DIDN'T BOW DOWN TO ME THEN YOU DIE AND THEREFORE I WIN
I forgot my lunchbox
I FORGOT MY LUNCHBOX
JUST STAB ME IN THE FACE WHY DON'T YOU
uh oh...
that's not good, Adra
you CAN just buy lunch...
if you have money..
@Adra: OH..
Oh.
THAT SUCKS.
I'm sorry . . . :/
@Jubi: BUT I LIKE BEING DEAD.
IT'S FUN. :)
SO I WIN!!!
#ChaseForBookNine
No, it has to be on an account.
AND THE VENDING MACHINE DOESN"T TAKE TENS.
But my Mum is awesome and she brought my TARDIS lunchbox to the front office I am happy
Fine.
IT'S A COMPROMISE!
WE BOTH GOT WHAT WE WANT SO THERE!
YAAAY!!
*rolls around* Weeeeee
WEEEEE!!
@Jubi: YAAAAAAAAAY! :)
@Adra: YAAAAAAAAAY! :)
#ChaseForBookNine
ONE DIRECTION ARE ON XPOSÉ HOLD MY GUCCI
#ChaseForBook9
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!! :DD
I'm eating Maltesers.
omfg
LES MIS AT LUNCH WOO
?
HEEELLOOOO????
Sorry I poofed . . . Back now.
#ChaseForBookNine
HAI STAR!!
HEY JUBI! :)
#ChaseForBookNine
HAI!
:P
*rolls down a hill* Biooooooooo
Hi to you as well, Adra. :)
#ChaseForBookNine
BIO ARGH
Umm
HAI ADRA!!
HIA JUBAB!
HAI ADRA
GOOD LUCK WITH BIO!!!
#ChaseForBookNine
TA
Bio doesn't sound fun...
BUT HAVE FUN!! xP
Star, I didn't see your reply last night because I had to go. I suggested you could either make a character or modify an OC to suit my ME story, if you'd like your character to be involved in it?
I replied, in more detail, that I was rubbish at creating characters, and that if I modified my chacraters, they wouldn't be themselves any more. It's nothing personal. :/
#ChaseForBookNine
Ah, don't worry then. To be honest it was just their powers that needed modifying anyway. But oh well. Whatever you want. ^^
Sorry I'm so distant, btw. :/
#ChaseForBookNine
*laughs* And their species. Most of my characters from Hunter's world aren't human. :P
Plus their backstories. If they're from your world, then the things that happen in their own worlds won't have happened to them, so they wouldn't be like this or this, so they would be different people. Our experiences make up a lot of who we are. If you take the experience away . . . you're a different person.
#ChaseForBookNine
I see your point. But I did include a part for combat experience - you could modify it slightly or give a quick overview so it kind of fits in with the ME universe. I'm not trying to persuade you btw I am more discussing it.
And I like how you refer to it as "my" world. ^^
Well, it is your world. :)
That's true, but if the world is run by so-and-so in my character's worlds, then that's a big adjust, seeing as in your world those powers don't exist. Hunter's one of said powers, which throughs him and all the characters strongly involved with him out. :P
Also . . . motives. It's nothing personal, but I can't see quite a few of my characters having a reason to want to be on your ship. Sorry, this is sounding really mean . . . BLAME MY CHARACTERS, NOT ME!
And plus, you wouldn't WANT Hunter on your ship, I don't think, because of his mental health. He's unreliable. :P
Also, he has a tendancy of trying to make everything about him, which is kind of bad when it's someone else's story. XD
Sorry.
#ChaseForBookNine
Oh, trust me - I've before had to deal with a psychotic biotic woman on my ship on ME2. She was pretty unreliable. ^^
She sounds cool. :)
Yeah, but Hunter could decide to blow you all up or something. *shrugs*
And . . . he wouldn't work in any world other than his own, because like I said, in his world, he has his organisation . . . Once, he time-travelled to pre-his organisation days and then had a breakdown because the news didn't acknowledge his existance.
*laughs*
People get addicted to fame, even if it's the kind of fame where everyone hates you. :P
#ChaseForBookNine
Going in the shower (sorry, but my scalp's itching and it's annoying me. My hair needs to be washed. :P), bbs.
#ChaseForBookNine
I'm still here!
our teacher made us close the screens on out tablets. *nods*
Bye Star!
Hey Adra! How are you?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RUIgYxgNuxg
That is the mighty Reaper Blackstar - the greatest weapon in the history of EVERYTHING.
Hi everyone
#ChaseForBook9
Hey Rhydian! How are you?
Feeling quite shit to be honest. The opposite of good
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HEEYYY GUYSSSS
And why is that?
Hey Jubi! How are you?
*tacklehugs Rhydian* WE LOVE YOU.
And if you still don't feel like sharing, that's fine. Just know that you can come to anyone of us.
AND WE LOVEYOUSOMUCH *huggles*
And Bio is almost over
aw :( *Hugs Rhy*
That really sucks.. :-/
what happened?
and alos
RHY!!!! DRAGONA!!!! ADRA!!!! *supermegatacklehugsofdoom*
HAAII!!!
*tacklehugs Adra back* thanks!
It's just people can be so...well they can be real bastards. My life is shit.
Hi Jubi!
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People can be annoying...
you're right about that..
Some people can be so ignorant and uncaring.
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Oh...
Did you know that when everyone was in their mom's tummy that the first thing that formed was their spines (to say loosely)
So literally at one point you were an asshole?
Apparently some people never exceeded past that stage
It's one thing treating me like shit. I've had it all my life. But when people are mean to my mum...thats when I get really pissed off
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Omg Adra xD
Rhydian - you're right. Some people can be absolute idiots. But you shouldn't let them bother you. You should rise above it and show that you are the better person and just ignore those who are petty and idiotic. You are better than those people and shouldn't listen to them. All they want to do - in my experience - is provoke a reaction. Don't give them the satisfaction of doing what they want you to do. It's better to do something unexpected and show that you don't care for idiots like them.
I don't know the situation but I hope that helps.
Oh wow...
I'm really sorry Rhy :(
Some people are just so stupid...
Like, you don't even know how people can be so stupid with out realizing that they're being stupid.
Sorry Dragona it doesn't help. *hugs*
I'm just everybody's joke. I'm the person they all laugh at. Now my mum is being treated like that. Kill me now! Please!
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*hugs Rhydian* My friends would laugh at my mom because she wasn't Catholic and she believes in energy and the flow of things. All my alchemy stuff? It comes from her. Of course some parts are more inflamed than others, but it is basically the same concept
*Hugs Rhy*
I'm not really good at helping people in these types of situations..
The other day when we were driving through town there was a kid who was about 10. He stepped into the road in front of my mum's car and didn't even bother to move - I think they call it playing chicken?
So yeah, that's what he did. My mum stopped in front of him and he started doing a victory dance - but then I flicked a lever near the steering wheel and put the car's lights on at full power and then beeped the horn really loud.
His victory dance was cut short because he jumped and tripped over the pavement. I was rather happy. Stupid idiot. It showed him.
Rhydian - at least on here you are no one's joke. You should not let a relatively few idiots ruin your life. There are plenty of good people out there and there are some bad ones - just keep faith in the good people and ignore the bad.
Someone please shoot me!
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@Rhydian: I don't know your mum, so it's hard for me to say much.
But everyone awesome gets treated bady by people at times, and the rule doesn't stop just because people are parents. It's sad, but true.
I guess what you can do is make sure she knows how angry you are at them, so that she knows you're on her side kind of.
Sorry . . . *winces* I'm not really accoustomed to advising people on what to do when people they love are being hurt. I've had gazillions more practise with reassuring people themselves . . . So I don't really know what to say now. :/
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There is a piece of glass dug into my finger, and it might never come out...
._.
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@Rhydian: You getting shot wouldn't solve anything. It wouldn't get you anywhere (if death is worse than life, you won't be able to bring yourself back to life again. They'll be no escape. Cling onto life whilst you can), and it would hurt everyone who cares about you, INCLUDING your mum. You would hurt her MORE than those idiots, which would make you worse than them.
I'm not going to shoot you, and if anyone tries to and I can stop it, I will.
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@Mara: O_O
Ouch!
How deep is it in?
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*There'll be
Not they'll be. *facepalm*
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*clears throat* No, Rhydian. If there were a different way to ease your pain instead of hurting you or you hurting yourself I would definitely tell you right now, but none come to mind at the present, and I'm sorry. wish I could give you suggestions.
But this... This can make you stronger, and I know it will. But you have to make yourself deal with it and stick through it. And yeah it is going to make you feel really bad, but that's what we're for.
You're not a bad person- actually you're really kind and sweet and really awesome to know. Especially when we're raiding Trip's bar on the minecraft when he isn't there. ((Update- I don't think he's noticed yet))
But please don't do that to yourself. Don't let them get under your skin. You're better than that, and you're better than them. Always.
Like, the skin on my finger grew over it...
Yeah. It's really sore. I can't write or anything... And with school tomorrow... :/
*hugs Rhydian*
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Mars- I have done that. I cut the pad of my finger with a piece of glass.
Like seriously guys, I didn't do it to be self-harming or anything I was curious. It was a weird time for me.
It hurt :P
And then I was making dinner later that night and got lemon juice in it.
:O
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