Waiting for your book to be released is always an interesting time for a writer. But behind all the excitement and the impatience and the work, there is one question — one ever-present question — that shouts louder than any of the others.
"Will they like this one?"
Because what if they don't? What if this book is the book where they finally realise you're not a writer? Or that your best work is behind you? What if the enthusiasm you have grown accustomed to finally runs out?
It's a possibility. I started my career with Skulduggery Pleasant, a series that ran for nine books with one spin-off and one short story collection. That's how I got my readers, and my readers have a genuine love for those characters and that world. That's what I'm used to. That love and enthusiasm is now what I expect whenever I release a book.
But Demon Road is different. Demon Road is new.
It doesn't have the advantage of being part of a long-running series. It's part of a trilogy, yes, but it's the FIRST part.
There is an unwritten rule in publishing. It's not a particularly nice rule, but it's an understandable one. This unwritten rule states that your second series will not reach the heights of the first series — at least not at first. Given time, it will gather its own fans and its own readers and it might even surpass the first, but upon its release it will flounder when compared to the heights previously scaled. My publishers told me about this rule years ago. I have had a lot of time to absorb it.
And I'm okay with it.
I think Demon Road is a good book. Of course I do, I wrote it. I think it will gather its own fans. A lot of these will be Skulduggery readers. Some won't be. Regardless, it was written to stand apart, to begin a new adventure, to introduce new characters and a new world, and it will rise or fall on its own merits.
This, to me, is the essence of writing. Each new book is a brand new lie, and each new lie brings an age-old truth. If a writer is lucky, he'll get multiple opportunities to tell these lies to an audience that is willing to give him the chance. Nobody wants to read a book they don't enjoy. Everyone wants the book they're reading to be the book that changes their life forever.
I've been very lucky in the past, and I reckon I'm ready for what's to come.
Monday, August 17, 2015
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«Oldest ‹Older 4001 – 4200 of 4989 Newer› Newest»:) Hey Jack. We're all yonder.
hello jack.
@Jack: :) Tired, thanks. You?
@Jack> :)
@Jack: :( :(
Was colder in Northern France yesterday. :o This is practically warm in comparison; it's sunny here. :)
France is nice. :)
:( :( :( Aww.
got new dancing video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MFm8wpC-Qg4&feature=youtu.be
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fduXL0TOt_c
(I is here
*frowns* why did you go jack?)
*just checking the UK time*
Hello?
(*hrrsd yjr htrst erihjy qtrdd iqpm zr, ejozqrtomh daohjyau, dohjomh jrsboau nrmrsyj yjr apsd*)
*nods at Jai*
*doesn't understand what she's saying*
(bored out of my tits running on 4 hours sleep and ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh )
( what just happened? )
(I believe Fabi just locked everyone out.)
( why? )
(Perhaps it was an accident. Perhaps it was an attempt to change the settings so Fera could not be immature again.)
( might not have been him ... Death mantis has been on b4 and was a dick then too )
( I said hear hear and asked if it were 8 months btw, as it literally turned that today for us ... and you were b4 the 9th ?)
( it appears only you and I were kicked... )
Nobody's been kicked off the blog...
( I was... it said I wasn't allowed. )
Also, I fail to see how removing the Name/URL comment feature would stop Fera from being immature...
"Kicking off" implies that I targeted specific people and made them unable to view my blog. I disagree with the word choice. The blog was unavailable for about a minute while I removed a few of the more offensive comments. It seems that you and Sophia were the only ones who refreshed during that minute, but I didn't target you or anyone, okay?
( okai)
I'm sorry...
( my thing was a break down because things... not aimed at anyone *goes to sleep *)
Don't be sorry, Lantern. It's not your fault. *hugs*
I'm sorry you had to do that . . .
(well. I would say 'felt you had to do that' because I mean tehre wasn't someone at gunpoint forcing you do, but 'felt you had to' implies that I didn't think you had to, and like, well, I'm goign to quote someone and say "There are always choices. But I think you made the right one.")
Fabi... *hugs*
(*can't sleep has tried a few times* )
(Guess that was the wrong thing to be curious about. Sorry. :/)
(*hugs fabi* im sorry
anyways I better go to bed now before anything happens because I have a VERY strong opinion about certain things)
(*can't post on the req blog*
*Will say g'night here instead*
I'm.. gonna go. Because I'm not okay with people criticizing each other. Especially criticizing Soph. She tries her best and in the end most of what she does is to stand up for others and try to keep rude insensitivity off the blog..
Anyway, goodnight.)
It's okay fabi.
People were disrespecting you and each other.
Its their fault for being selfish
@Keiron: Um, do you want to talk about it? :/
lol i've been blocked out of the requiem ball :P
Copied from the other blog:
If anybody's still reading this, take a deep breath, then another, and calm down.
I think walking a way for a bit is a good way to do that.
Calm down, I mean.
I think I'm going to do that.
I advise that you do the same.
I'll turn comments back on when I'm back and see how it goes.
Please think about your actions and how they affect others.
I'm sorry to the people I'm interrupting who had nothing to do with the conflict.
See you in a bit.
(Fabi I'm sorry)
(If you can't sleep, try to imagine being hugged by someone you love. It sometimes helps.)
*hugs Jai tightly*
*was going to leave a comment on the previous page*
*sighs*
Society:
The community of people living in a particular country or region and having shared customs, laws, and organizations.
The community being Blogland. Maybe the fact that these rules mean nothing to you is the reason some people might dislike you?
[hugs Kas and Star and Noelle and Jai and Inky and Aquila and anyone else who wants a hug]
....
You all should be so ashamed of yourselves.
...
And for the record,
the ball has been my first interaction with this community in weeks, and if it is gone, then I'm forced to go too.
perhaps kas, yes. But hey, i am always a rule breaker. sorry bout that ^_^
*hugs Fabi*
Thank you, Kas. :)
(*sighs* I'm sorry
Bye)
(*hugs fabi before leaving for a few days*)
@Fera: Yes. You should be sorry.
Right, um, um, um, I may need people.
*ignore the sigh above
Good night, Jaimie and Chloe! *hugs warmly*
I was going to post something. But there is no point. It will just make other people upset. It's not going to change them...
(-hugs back- Sorry again, I didn't mean to upset anyone.
Fera: I do think you care about what people think of you. Judging by your trying to proof you weren't that other person. So... I do think considering their feelings won't hurt your case, don't you?)
(*hugs Noelle..*
I'm sorry..
@Fabi email..)
Noelle, I'll let you know if I enable comments again and it doesn't turn into another conflict. [hugs]
(... _hugs gemmy jam jar_ )
People!
*panics over everybody leaving*
Goodbye, um, everybody but Star, apparently! Come back soon, as you will be missed!
And you've ruined everything again, Frank...
-runs off-
Oh, dear, sorry Kas, I need to sleep soon. :(
lol everyone is panicking over death mantis coming on? or? i have no clue why everyone got sooo upset all of a sudden?
well thanks, I always do that, i am getting quite used to it now :)
Hey! Don't blame frank for YOUR dam problems with him, it's not exactly his fault you guys don't like him for who he is
(... well, Fera, I feel like you should know better than me? All I can guess is there must be some kind of massive backstory. -shrugs-
Lesson learned, touchy subject. Won't be touched again any time soon.)
@Star Can you explain WTF just happened? I mean... I thought everybody was aware that Fera and Sophia weren't the best of buds? So... what happened?
(No! Don't let sleep claim you! It is a nightmarish thing!)
I don't think a person's usual topics of speaking are part of who they are.
Saying unacceptable things is not a personality trait.
Unless you're suggesting that your personality trait is to upset people, at which point you can't except to be like that and have many friends.
And for the record, I'm fairly sure people got upset because you don't seem to value anyone's sensitivities at all.
@Kas: *shrugs* All I know is, I'm mad at Fera, everyone else seems mad at Fera, stuff. I don't have the best of memories for events.
I have school tomorrow. I need to sleep. :/
(Star... my usual topics of speaking are all part of who I am? As far as I'm aware? From cookies to ferns to socks. All of them.)
exactly aquila. i have no idea why everyone got so upset. no one said anything that should've made everyone sooo upset. jesus christ.
( i've only got one button to push mantis... one thing that will set me off... I will look past everything EVERYTHING apart from this one button... i'm not saying who pushed it I quite frankly don't care at this point but the point is it was pushed by this incident... I'm not saying i won't not forgive all ... but It will make me act differently... the last time the button was pushed was months ago I still hate the person... )
MY PROBLEM WITH YOU GUYS IS THAT YOU MADE FUN OF WHAT MY 12 YEAR OLD BROTHER HAS! HE AND I LIVE WITH IT EVERY DAY I SEE HOW THE OTHER BOYS LOOK AT HIM AND IT'S JUST A FUCKING JOKE TO THE BOTH OF YOU. DON'T YOU DARE TALK TO ME LIKE THAT AGAIN YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE!
Frank don't you dare come to my birthday or i will take great pleasure in punching you in the face. And that's if nobody stops me first.
awwww, i am mad at you guys too :P
Good night, Star.
*shrugs at Aquila*
hey back up people. you do not want this. I've apologized for that gemma. Now, calm down.
(-pokes Fera- -points at Chione- See that girl upset cause you made fun of whatever her brother has? I think she's someone to say sorry to. She sure looks it. And I know I'm horrible at forgiving people who talk bad about my own brothers, too, so.. I doubt you'll be happy with her anger. =P)
*stares at Gemma*
I'm sorry you have to put up with some people's behaviour.
I'd hug you if I could.
(Oh, you already did. Hm. Then I don't know.)
@Fera: Does no one else's feelings mean nothing to you?
We said "we're not okay with that" and you said "I don't care I'll say it anyway because who the fucks cares if anyone's okay with it or not" and we were liek "you don't care about how any of feel? Huh"
^My impression of the situation.
Also, it's just one event after the other with you, isn't it?
You can only test me so many times.
@Aquila: And are you doing to feel like you're having to supress a large part of you if you're asking to stop talking about cookies?
(If you are mad at the community then why are you still here? *leaves for a few days*)
(Fera.. I think you should just go for the night, let people cool off? Or at least leave Gemma be for the night. You crossed a line and upset her. You've apologized, good, but an apology is only half (if that) of the solution. Learn. From. Your. Mistakes.)
I want to tear apart your face. Right down to the bone. Don't you fucking dare.
If this is who you are Frank, that you make fun of autism and other serious diseases that destroy peoples lives...then i hate you. I hate your guts.
@Fera Reverse Psychology 101: Never tell people what they do not want in a commanding tone.
*nods*
(Star: As long as the 'you must not talk about' list stays clearly shorter than the 'you are free to talk about' list, I'm fine.
@Aquila: *nods*
*doesn't really know where I'm going with this, if I'm goign anywhere XD*
(Chione, just out of curiousity, and just ignore this if it bothers you...
... how do you feel about people that do have a serious diseas making fun about their own serious disease?)
(*hugs Gemma tighter .... * ... <3 I can't find good words rn)
@Aquila: Good question. :)
(Star, well... it seemed kinda passive-aggressive, and now I feel like I barely managed not to fall into that lake full of hungry piranhas. XD Seems my answer was reasonable enough. XD )
tear my face off? ok. that's not violent at all :P It's a warning there's no psychology behind it :P I am just saying calm down. and why am i still here? well, because people need to cool off. and the next time they see me they'll be just the same if they don't now.
@Fera: I won't.
(@Aqu imagine you have a flaw.
With me, I'm small.
That doesn't mean I like people saying "Oh look it's a dwarf!"
"Oi midget!"
"Aww she's so cute!"
Granted, when I'm in a perky mood I'll sometimes make small jokes about myself but I know my own limit, I know when to stop before I get upset.)
(Silente, I've got a friend of 1.50 m. She likes to answer comments like that with 'Everything grows until it's perfect. Shame it took you so long.' ;) )
(@Fera yeaaaaaah no.
People won't treat you the same after this.
Think of a cat.
Pull it's tail once, its annoyed.
Pull again, its really annoyed.
Pull again it glares and pulls its tail away.
Pull again it growls.
Pull again it hisses and claws your face off.)
(@Aqu however I'm presuming she has moments of selfdoubt where she gets upset by it? IE bad days.)
lol, i allow people to make fun of me as long as it happens vice versa, i am even making fun of myself. and my mistakes and flaws. that's who i am. We stopped didn't we? IT wasn't really directed towards anyone, and we've only mentioned one disease that all people posses to a certain degree. Wasn'#t even making fun of it, and wasn't intending to and apologized.
star: ok, then...well, keep telling me how you would commit a brutal murder against me, whilst i am over here knowing none of you are an actual threat :p
If in that situation someone makes fun of theirselves, let's play this out.
Someone has alzimers (i'm bad at spelling)
And they have done many terrible things in the past that they want to forget. They joke about wanting to forget it. But you know how alzimerd tears families apart. They forget the people they care most about. So if one of the loves ones overheard someone making fun of alzimers who has it they would wonder why because of all people they should understand more than anyone what it's like ao it would still upset them. A lot. So i still don't think it's right to make fun of it...
@Jai: Good metaphor.
@Aquila: Everyone is different. Like, I'm totally fine being called weird, but other people are less okay about it and maybe spend a lot of effort trying to be normal out of fear of people thinking they're weird.
(@Jai Your height is not a flaw!)
(*raises an eyebrow at none of us being an actual threat*
So I'm leaving before I say something I'll regret. Bye.)
(@Kas Mmmmm. Debatable.
Night!)
@Fera: I don't want to MURDER you. Hell no! You don't deserve to die. I don't believe anyone deserves to die. I don't even want to threaten you. I am not threatening /at all/.
I just want you to know I'm mad at you.
And now, I need to go to sleep because I need to get up for school tomorrow. Adios! Have fun existing. :)
(Yes, I get a punch to the arm if I make a joke at the wrong time. I accept the punch and shut up about it until I forget to shut up about it. Usually a week or so. I don't say the same things, sometimes I just have random thoughts like 'To you, the world is a couple percent larger than to me.' If I get hit, that's it and I shut up. It works fine for us. ... where am I even going with this... oh, right.
Everyone is different, so I won't tiptoe around every smaller person just to make sure I will never offend them. However, if I get a signal that it's going too far, I stop. If it's clear I hurt someone, I say sorry. It's my way of doing things, and I hope I won't end up offending you that way - because it's the best I can do.
Treating people like raw eggs seems unreasonable to me. It's like never talking about technology around a girl cause she might be offended by a topic mostly men are interested in. Just assuming someone will be hurt feels like a form of discrimination, to me. -shrugs-)
(Goodbye, Jaimie. *she hugs Jaimie tightly*
It is nice to see some intolerance towards these things, admittedly.)
oh ok star ^_^
because i don't take physical threats very lightly. So yeah, don't even dream about it.
*nods at Aquila in approval of her methods*
Just, we've told Fera that he's gone too far before and he always does it again. That's the issue.
@Fera: Lol you'Re expecting ME to make a physical threat?
No😧
(Frank it's a irl 2 in her book ... ok ... im at irl 3 for because rn i'm managing just to stay at least calm enough to not go where I would with it,)
Ignore emoji. Twas a typo.
@Fera Gemma did not threaten you.
@Jai There's nothing to debate.
Good night, Jai and Star.
(Yes, Star. If it happened once and then never again - there would be no issue. But as I have said previously, it will just keep happening - no matter how much people criticise me for pushing for a long-term solution to the problem.)
I didn't? I thought it perfectly clear that i did threaten him. If i ever see him he's getting pumched in the face. At least once.
Goodnight.
(Sophia, you know how 'long-term solution' sounds, right? I haven't witnessed whatever Fera has done, so right now, I'm totally not in favour of anything like a 'long-term solution'. Maybe ask the guy whose head you're in about my stance on that kind of thing. =P )
kas: tearing my face off is nto a threat? punching me if seen is not a threat? :P
yeah i guessed k. I am holding back as much as i can tbh.
star: XD
(Perhaps you would be more favourable, Aquila, if you knew of the circumstances.)
(Sophia, as long as the solution is anything else than 'ignoring but not attacking', I doubt I could be in favour.)
I am just saying as long as you don't threaten me, you'll be fine.
(Yay, I'll be fine. ^^)
(Goodnight Gemma... <3 _hugs tightly_
I need to go because I feel the lightest thing might make me not hold back any longer.)
@Fera "I want to..." is not a threat. Just pointing that out.
(Goodnight/bye to everyone leaving.)
@Kas: I'm fairly sure the police would disagree in cases like 'I want to tear your head off' or 'I want to kill you'.
Good night, Gemma and Keiron.
she just made it clear that she was threatening me :D
alright k.
(We actually attempted to all ignore him at one point. It had mixed results, almost certainly due to the fact it somewhat disintegrated.
Fera - I am not entirely sure why anyone would not be fine, even if they did threaten you.)
(Sophia, you at the same time claim that he does harm people and that he can not harm people? 0o)
@Aquila threaten - state one's intention to take hostile action against (someone) in retribution for something done or not done.
So saying "I want to kill you" is not you stating an intention, such as "I will kill you." Something for the lawyers to work out, though.
sophia: well idk about you, but you don't know me :P
kas: well she meant to threaten me. She even said it...
(Fera, totally off topic... whenever someone's name ends on a, I just assume they are a girl. :P )
well, am not a girl XD last time i checked :P
(If I ever call you she, sorry in advance. XD )
nah it's fine ^_^ I don't take offense of many things lol, there's only a handful that anyone coudl ever do to upset me :D
(Aquila - Not exactly, no. He may irritate people, yes. But there is nothing out of the ordinary he could do if someone threatened him.)
(I only get properly angry if someone talks shit about people I like, or harms them. =P But hell, do I get unpleasant then. ^^)
sophia: if you say so.
oh yes i get that aquila, so does josh and me :P
(Sophia, so if what he does is ordinary, then why all the disliking?)
sophia: btw when are you planning to shut up?
(-pokes Fera- You know there's no point in messing with her, don't you? She's a character.)
@Fera Probably around the same time you learn about things like spelling and grammar.
(Just because something has happened several times, Aquila, does not make it acceptable.
There are no plans at this time, Fera.)
@Kas: ... I haven't noticed any major deficiensies in Fera's English? In fact I once knew someone on the blogs who had actually bad spelling, and she was still liked by people...
kas: I speak 3 languages and i still would bet that my english grammar is a lot finer than yours. Good try though. OH wait nahhh..
sophia: cool.
(-blinks- ... Fabi, that sure looks like morse code, but I so won't attempt decoding it... still, I admire the effort you put into it.)
Yeah, don't decode it.
You won't care for the contents.
(Alright then. ^^)
Fera, if you're wondering why I've never liked you, it's because of your grammar. It repels me. I don't like seeing bad spelling and grammar. Maybe you can't help it, it just frustrates me.
So you lost me when you didn't capitalise "Kas"
kas: Not capitalizing kas now, and still better than yours. You've never liked me because of my grammar? Wow, that's such an insult, please save me from the bad boys :P
(Kas... is capitalising stuff grammar? 0o I thought that goes as spelling. Guess you really never stop learning... -makes mental note to call it grammar instead-)
(I am aware that you write codes so no one will decipher them, Fabi, but, as Conductor knows - I am able to read Morse code. You can email me if you wish.)
I didn't see the morse, Fabi. I don't know what I'm doing anymore.
(Aquila - Capitalising a letter makes no impact on how the word is spelt, therefore it must be grammar. Or at least, that has always been my interpretation.)
@Aquila I did say "bad spelling and grammar"
@Fera You're literally the most stupid person I know, as you don't seem to know what an insult is.
(I thought spelling is everything to do with what letter to put, and a small letter is different from the capital one? While grammar is the relationship between words? Which is why I thought it's spelling. ^^ Oh, and the fact my teachers always marked it as a spelling mistake if I did it. But you might be right, dunno.)
lol really fabi? I've never said i am superior to anyone. And well, if people always make big deals about it, how are you expecting me to care? Also, i am pretty sure gemma and star were just continuing to fuel the fire this time. Umm, also...lol.
kas: And you don't seem to know what sarcasm is. Bang bang. Shots fired. Such insult, much don't care :D
(-blinks- I think I've arrived at my own conclusion. To me, the problem appears to be that a typical internet-inhabitant walked into Blogland without changing behaviour. 0o
Say, Fera... 9gag? Also, three languages?)
(Tia - Despite my initial disliking of you, recently you are somewhat becoming more likeable in my eyes.
Aquila - Capitalising at the start of a sentence would be grammar, surely? If, as you said - grammar is all about the relationship between words - the capital letter would mark the first word as the start of a sentence, thus defining its relationship as a predecessor to the words following it.)
9gag? The site? What about it? And yes, I speak romanian, hungarian and english. well, not perfect romanian.
It's not just liking or disliking. If you're not going to bother with proper spelling, then I won't bother reading the comment and responding. That's why I've ignored some of your comments these past few months. I'm not insulting you, merely explaining the reason why I've been cold to you before I really got to know you.
I was looking forward to continuing the ball. Thank you for whoever managed to upset Fabi, glad she tried to stop the fighting, sad that good things can't happen without fighting.
(Sophia: To me both makes sense, but I do know my teachers marked it as a spelling mistake. So I do lean towards that explanation. It's the only reason I do prefer one over the other, though.)
Got to know me? Well, that's hardly accurate. I don't think my parents or my closest friends know me.
(Fera: Was checking if you know it cause you referenced the doge meme. ^^ And, nice. ^^ English, German, and some Latin, here.
Grant Ward?: Um, I guess it was my fault, for a fair part? I wondered if it was just me or if Sophia and Fera disliked each other, and within no time at all, everyone was really upset.)
I debated leaving the comment without codes, but decided it might upset certain people.
Kas, please stop talking to Fera. He doesn't care for your opinion and will continue to behave as he always has. I believe previous instances have established that.
Aquila, I'm sorry you had to become involved in this.
(Perhaps. I am only attempting to explain my interpretation of it. To me, were I going to list the letters in a word - capitalised or not - what I would say would not be changed.
Rather than spelling or grammar, it may actually be punctuation. There is a third option. I am actually leaning towards it being defined as an irregular form of punctuation.)
(Fabi, don't worry about it? I'm just getting to know you lot, and I'll simply continue it by how you behave currently. I won't read back or act based on what someone else claims about any of you. So... to me, it wasn't really unpleasant. Simply quite confusing.)
lol yeah that's what they do aquila. sometimes i really honestly don't even know why they get SOOOO upset. But they do. And shit escalates. Oh well, and fabi please don't speak in my name, i don't appreciate it very much.
Sophia, I didn't think I'd change my opinion about you, but... I'd say the same about you. I got used to you. I'd miss you.
(The fact you do not seem to understand, Fera, is one of the two reasons why it continues to happen.)
(Oh, I think you have a point there, Sophia. There IS a third option. I'm not sure it really matters to me, in the end. I mean, to me English always seems to lack capitals, anyway... so I don't mind the lack of them too much. In German, though, it would bother me a fair bit.. ^^)
(Sophia... I don't understand it, either?)
@Fabi I'll try. I'm not sorry for what I said, just that I said it now.
@Fera I know enough to know what to expect from you.
(Perhaps our initial confrontation was due to the fact we could never seem to agree. And now it appears we do actually agree on something - a similar event occurred with Gemma. We used to argue a lot more frequently than we do now.
Aquila - I am rather fond of definitions. I would like to keep my speech tidy, as it were, and having a rogue way of structuring sentences with no definition feels somewhat untidy.)
Aquila, although I think your efforts to make Fera and Sophia talk didn't contribute positively to the situation, they did not provide the main reason for my closing of the comments section.
And I don't blame you for finding it confusing. Most of it started because of comments this morning, and I don't think you were there(?) (I wasn't either, and I skipped over it rather quickly because it made me uncomfortable.)
it's overreaction at its finest if you ask me. Sure, maybe it wasn't the best idea to say it. Sure, gem got upset(which really surprised me), even though it wasn't directed at anyone. Last time, your problem was that i was being too personal. I stopped doing that. We were just being generally silly. IT wasn't meant to offend. You stir up a problem about everything that you deem inappropriate. So i don't even know what's wrong anymore. Furthermore, I thought it was established we didn't like each other with sophia, yet you start panicking when we say it in all honesty? like...what is wrong.
(Ah, no I wasn't. Thing is, I usually avoid ghosting without warning, cause... it feels a bit stalker-ish. XD So if I'm there but not talking, people usually know by a cat having walked in or something of the sort.)
(I read the comments and expressed my skepticism about the events.)
Mission Entirely Possible: Rogue Sentences
(Just a random thought!)
You're right, Sophia. There are other explanations, too, but I've found you to be a decent person.
(I like a good mess, actually, because nothing is more boring than empty surfaces. With language, though - to me language is something meant for communication. If you mess it up so badly people have trouble to understand you, I don't like it.
Simply put, the things Fera does are too slight to bother me. ^^)
(Fera - Your actions are inappropriate, that is what is wrong. You seem to have no knowledge about decency. There are some things that should not be done, and some matters that should not be joked about.)
(Sophia - maybe you should give him a list or so?)
*would like to take a moment to praise my third phone battery*
(- gives Kas a small pedestal to put the phone battery on for better praising-)
Sophia, while I understand your skepticism, a lot of times people reading back and then feeling the need to comment on what they read doesn't help. Just... Something to think about in the future, I guess, and it goes for everyone.
Sometimes it can't be helped, and a lot of times, people who comment on an event after it happens have valid points, but most of the time it stirs things up again.
*nods*
I will call it... Happy.
Thank you, Aquila.
(What other explanations can you offer, Tia?
Aquila - I prefer everything neat, so I am aware where everything is should I need it. The same thing occurs when I communicate. I speak quite bluntly - thus to prevent rambling. I would like to think that no word I use is unnecessary, to keep things neat, but you may find some dotted around. And, as I said previously, I am rather fond of definitions. For me, a definition is like filing a word away neatly.)
(You're welcome. ^^
Ooooh, I guess to make things easier for you guys... well, if it doesn't make it easier ignore it.. ^^ But Aquila is the character that shapeshifts. I'm Johanna. :) )
nahh, i think you just don't have the slightest bit of idea about how to laugh things off, and how to ignore. You seem to think that making a mess will help anyone, and that in life you won't encounter these. Well, you will. It's all about perspective. I joke about my own biggest flaws, and not feel offended, and my friends also do the same. Sure there are some sensitive people, but after apologizing, why make a fuss about it? You won't change me lol. Furthermore, I do have an idea about decency, if I hadn't, things would escalate very VERY differently.
(Sophia, so which book do you refer to for definitions?)
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I dedicate this page to the people who have to fight to be able to do things the rest of us take for granted, to the people who can't do them altogether, and to the people who don't fit with the norm and wonder what's wrong with them when the answer is nothing.
(A list that contains every subject that should not be discussed would be impractical and somewhat impossible to construct.
Fabi - I am able to understand that. But if today has shown us anything - it is that things like that, specifically people's views on them, do not just fade away. And when it is something like that, it should be argued against. I can understand those who dislike arguments - but occasionally they are necessary. If it attempts, succeed or not, to stop it happening again - it is worth doing.)
@Sophia Us arguing less. Because I involve myself in less arguments than before, or just spend less time on the blog. Maybe not the reason, as I actually like you, and, having known you for some time, can see where you're coming from when you make your points.
(Hear hear.
Sophia, yes, it's good to make a stand. But with your claim that you don't like unnecessary words and your claim now that you just wanted to state you didn't agree with it... why not just say 'Off topic, but I disagree with what Fera said earlier, too.'? Seems shorter.)
Hear hear.
@Fera Ah, "life." Good luck with that. I'm sure your lack of ability to sense whether you're offending or upsetting someone will be a valuable asset to you.
That was sarcasm.
Seriously, work on it. Apologies only go so far.
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